First of all, a warm, heart-felt thanks to all the lovely ladies who attended “Holding Your Mood to Hold Your Man” last Monday.
With all the talk and excitement about women, jealousy, envy, female rivalry, insecurity and the fear of infidelity, I would have thought “Chili Peppers” would be the hottest! (No pun intended.)
How could “Hold Your Mood” end up being hotter than “Chili Peppers?”
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Common knowledge treats jealousy as a sign of insecurity, immaturity or a character flaw that should be omitted from the human emotional repertoire because of its dangerously dark side effects.
Any typical, common and intelligent woman would say, “I believe that’s called immaturity. I’ve learned to love myself enough to let go and not put myself through unnecessary drama!”
But here is what enlightened Modern Geisha students said after taking the “Chili Peppers” class:
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Here is an article by Emma Gray of the Huffington Post on the new Rules book, Not Your Mother’s Rules, which will address current dating dilemmas of the online dating world, texting, sexting and Facebook.
Click here to read the article: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/emma-gray/the-rules-not-your-mothers-rules-online-dating_b_1545635.html
Emma says, “One of the great things about online dating is that it gives any party the power to make the first move. And if you get rejected — who cares? You’ve never met the person to begin with. In light of that reality, Fein and Schneider’s ideas seem retrograde.”
Do you agree?
Do you think The Rules are revolutionary or retrograde?
Emma says, “Treat people you’re interested in like they’re actual people? That’s a rule worth following.”
If you’re a Rules girl, what questions or challenges are you facing while applying The Rules to online dating, texting and Facebook?
Are you finding it difficult or easy to do The Rules?
What rules are you having the most trouble with? What’s working or what’s not working?
Are The Rules making your dating life hell or taking you faster to wedding bells?
As we anxiously await the new Rules book due to be released Valentines Day 2013, I would like to get your feedback.
Please send your questions and comments by replying to this post or email me at kim.evazians@gmail.com.
You can also join my Rules support group on Facebook called Secrets of the Modern Geisha™ to take part in our discussions and meet other Rules girls worldwide in a closed forum.
For those who can’t wait for the new Rules book to come out, but need questions answered now, please be sure to check for updates on weekly Modern Geisha Ninja Tactical Classes for Rules girls coming soon!
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(This memo was sent to all members of Secrets of the Modern Geisha™. I am sharing this here for anyone interested in joining our Rules support group.)
This group was created to help you do The Rules. It’s much easier to follow The Rules when you have a strong network of help. You know you’re not alone and you always have a space to share trials and triumphs with other Rules-minded girls.
You will experience a tremendous amount of relief, comfort and hope when you share your personal experiences with others who are going through the same situation. It’s so inspiring to see everyone’s personal growth, hear about the success stories and witness their journey of personal transformation in just a few short months.
Please keep in mind, even though this is a “Closed” group restricted to “Members Only,” anything you post is public to all members of the group. It is the equivalent of a group email blast. Anything you post is presumably intended for group sharing. Questions seeking advice are seen as open discussions and will not be treated as private consultations.
When it comes to friends, I would prefer that people refrain from inviting their close friends. This is for your own privacy and protection. I want you all to feel like this is your own special place to share and take part in Rules discussions with other like-minded Rules girls.
I know how much you all want to help your friends and tell them about The Rules and the Modern Geisha philosophy. However, not everyone is ready for it, no matter how badly you think they need it. The best thing for you to do is just keep doing The Rules. And if your friends ask what you’re doing, you can tell them.
It is preferred if people join on their own. It tells me they truly want to be here and it was their own choice. People do not need to be convinced to appreciate something valuable that’s like a hidden treasure.
This group is for women who are passionate about The Rules and want to support other Rules girls. If you ask for advice, give some advice. Don’t just take and ignore others. It’s a circular loop of give and take that goes both ways. This is how you build trust and identity with others in a network of help. If you help them, they will help you back.
Be supportive, not needy—rather than being someone who just drains everyone’s time and energy without consideration for others. Give support and be supported. Be inspiring, uplifting, positive and empathetic.
Most importantly, learn to keep your secrets secret! When you can keep a secret, it means you have learned to value yourself.
I reserve my best-kept secrets and premium advice for private consultations. I do not share them in my blogs and Facebook groups, but only hidden traces of their existence in cryptic-like language.
Even though my clients my blogs and posts are the bomb, they know it is only 5% of my true essence at the most. They also know it’s nothing compared to a private consult where my notorious secrets are revealed.
Lately, I have been getting lots of inquiries about the difference between a Rules consultation and Modern Geisha lesson, and how to go about getting one.
Women are intrigued by what they hear through “geisha gossip” about my notorious secrets taught under the cloak of Modern Geisha lessons.
“Geisha Gossip”
The most famous of them all is “How to Make Time Stand Still: The Powerful Art of Charming Conversation with Men.” This is my most advanced lesson and probably the most powerful tool a woman could ever possess in conversation. It has yielded astonishing success for clients applied these techniques to their dating and love life.
Interestingly enough, 95% of my consults are questions starting with “What would a Modern Geisha do?” or “How can I be a Modern Geisha when…?”
Due to the rising demand for Modern Geisha lessons and increasing new member activity in my Rules support group (under the name of “Secrets of the Modern Geisha“), I will have Modern Geisha Orientation Meetings. This is simply an introduction to Modern Geisha practices and protocol where I will cater to the questions of new prospects and existing clients.
To be a coach unlike any other, I am constantly striving to improve and sharpen my skills to keep my knife-like, superior and cutting edge. In practicing what I preach, I stay flexible, fluid, agile, highly adaptive and competitive like a ninja warrior.
Unlike most Rules coaches, I refrain from giving email consultations. Whereas, some Rules coaches give email consultations only. I also refrain from giving advice over text or Facebook in order to maintain the quality and integrity of my coaching.
I am willing to lose a few clients who want email consultations. Giving consultations by phone or Skype is much more powerful and effective than by any other means. It is direct and has a deeper level of rapport and care.
I don’t do anything other than being a Rules dating coach because I am 200% committed to my clients. This is my life work and calling. I cannot afford to be part-time, common and mediocre.
As a professional dating coach, it is difficult to imagine teaching someone the art of rapport and building a relationship with them strictly through the printed word.
My hope is to give my clients an all-around sensational experience through reading blogs, interactive discussions with other Rules girls, and audio-visual consults, which make a rich experience for learning.
Modern Geisha Orientation Meetings will be held once a month on Skype. Dates and times will be announced.
I am excited and look forward to seeing many of you join these lively meetings. Come ready to begin your secret ninja training with your pink light saber!
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